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still think about my ex after 8 months but why?
I broke up with him after dating a full year because he fought a lot and he would often make me cry. I have dated guys right after him, I'm currently in a relationship and it has been 3 months, but a month ago he went to California to get a job(it's a complicated situation) ever since a couple weeks after that I been thinking and missing my ex boyfriend. We been casually texting lately and keep thinking bout old times, but he moved out of state bout around the time period we broke up and it's like only random times I start to sorta miss him what am I going to do we were so in love and that keeps running in my mind even though me and my new boyfriend love each other and I miss him as well since its been a month since we last seen each other but this particular ex pops in my mind a lot lately!

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I have to break up with my betraying girlfriend but i love her?
hey guys im 19 and she is 17 and I have been with this girl for 17 months now. I am a straight edge type and she had a rocky past before we got together....dating guys 5 years older than her sneaking around to hotels, drinking at age 14, tried smoking and cough syrup. But she is clincally depressed and after she got caught from her parents about all the stuff she did she was put on anti depressants and got therapy and is still doing that stuff today. I knew her for a year before we dated and I actually hated her guts what she was doing with herself. Then she got help and was a different person and we fell for each other and everything was great for about 11 months and we fell in love. It was hard for me to forgive her past but she swore to me that she changed and was never going to do anything like that ever again. I have a big problem with any of that kind of stuff and have never smoked or done drugs in my life and never will and I need a partner who thinks the same. The biggest thing I have a problem with though is drugs particularly weed for many personal reasons, I lost many friends who's lives got destroyed getting involved in that world and I was pressured everyday for about 2 years and never gave in and never will and that is me. Now despite everything she did she had never done drugs in her life and I was thankful for that and made her promise never to even attempt to and I said that that would kill me on the inside. She has a little social group of about 7 people that she spends the night over their homes sometimes and last summer they all started smoking weed and she didn't. I got concerned right away but she promised that if they did she would stay inside and not do it or even watch and I was thankful for that. But of course I was always concerned because of her old self being a "free will" do whatever and not care about the consequence because she is depressed and quote " I have no respect for myself i dont care what I do to myself". Then one night in January of this year we got into a fight and I personally dropped her at her friends house to spend the night, and she smoked that night. I told her when we first got together that that is a dealbreaker for me and if she ever did I would have to break up with her. She hid it for 2 months! acting like nothing happened. Finally in March 2 days after my birthday btw. She said that we have little in common and broke up with me and she told me that she tried weed that one night. And I died inside. The betrayal was like nothing I have felt before. 5 days past and we reconnected and both realized that we wished each other and tried again and she said she was so sorry and will really never do it again. We had 2 weeks of fighting trying to work out the details and I knew that it would get better. Then one night it started with her friend spending the night at her house, then she texted me saying they were moving to her friends house who is the active drug user, then she texted me that 3 other people were spending the night too including 2 guys. Then the next morning I was suspicious and asked if she smoked and she said no. We went out on a couple dates, I paid, then my friend texted me telling me that he caught her drinking cough syrup during school, so when I talked to her I asked "is there anything u want to admit to me" and she said yeah I smoked weed again. I told her to get out of my house and made her walk home I was so mad. How could someone do that to another human being? break such trust like that twice?? So 6 days went by and she was prepared to leave me.....but my heart held me back despite everything I still cared and didnt want her to do drugs and I basically felt guilty letting her be vunerable. I admit this was bad but I begged HER to take me back and eventually she said yes... originally because of this..She is going to prom in 2 weeks and I really wanted to go...and after she graduates we had booked a place on the beach for senior week together with other people and I really didnt want to pass that up. So i went in with the intention of using her like she used me for months! to get those two things and then kick her to the curb...but now I am falling for her again. This time i went with her to her therapist and i am about 70% sure she wont do drugs again because she says she really does not want to now. But i still kind of believe that if it wasent for me she would be an active user right now so im almost kind of saving her and I like that. Am I setting myself up for disaster again? I am going to get prom and a week at the beach but I hve no idea what to do after that, I really should kick her to the curb but then I will feel almost responsible for the crap she does and like I said I am falling for her again and I feel so guilty now for my plan. I know I can find another girl but I feel so much guilt I guess I could tell her parents about her life and then I will feel less guilt

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Isn't it annoying, that kids are dating?
Kids my age are dating, and It seems so stupid. My friends are dating guys! Well I haven't seen them in a long time because I switched schools, and I don't even know who their boyfriends are. They don't take love seriously. No body does. I think its so ridiculous, Relationships last on for 3 months at the most, they mistaken love for selfish vain reasons and then they create a dramatic break up. I would like to wait until I am 25 to have a boyfriend, (Even then I wouldn't consider dating dating) I would like to tell them what is right but I dont want to upset them. Im probably not going to do it, and I respect their opinions and their wishes, But don't you think its wrong? In this time we are supposed to be KIDS, and to focus on grades, and family and friends, Not looking for the one who will be the love of our lives. We have plenty of time to do it. Any one agree with me? What do you have to say? If you don't agree, just leave and don't say anything. Thanks

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