I need help with a girl?
This girl i know date a friend about 7 years ago. We we're always friends and hung out in a group. After this group of friends drifted apart we still remained being friends. Well after some time i started liking her and told her how i felt about her. She said she did not feel the same. Then we started to drift apart. Then we started to see one another as friends again a few years back. Now I'm starting to have feelings for her again. I don't want to risk our friendship but i would really like to see her as more than a friend. Btw we we're 21 when we met and are both 28 now. Any advice?

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I need your opinion please?
So my boyfriend of one year and I six months ago broke up for a month for reasons. I dated a friend of his and sexually messed around but never had sex. He asked me what I did when we werent together and I said nothing and hid it for while because I didnt want to hurt him. We werent together and I thought we wouldnt be forever so I didnt think anything of it. I told him yesterday and hr is pissed. Should he be? Am I wrong? I do mess around a lot because I'm young but I never cheated on him. I didnt cheat on him we broke up for a month

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Should I give him another chance or what? Help!?
Apology: this is going to be a long story. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. When we are spending quality time together, we both are very happy. He's very affectionate, and so am I. To many people, we appear to be a very cute/sweet couple. But I'm sad 70% of time. Here's what others don't know: We didn't start off very well. It was right after I ended my previous relationship that I met him. We became friends for a few months until one night we kissed. He never made clear what I meant to him. Even after that, he still talked about girls he had a crush on (we used to talk about that when we were friends). But he asked me out on a date and wrote in the title of the email he sent me that it was a date. So I thought we were together. A few months after we started dating, he still flirted with a girl at a party that I was also attending (although I didn't see it). I found this out later and was so upset, especially it turned out that the girl was a friend of mine (not close friend). So all of my other female friends know that my bf flirted with this girl. She's a nice a girl, but every time I see her she talks to me with pity (because apparently my bf was openly interested in her). That really upsets me and I hate that my bf put me through this. My bf denied that he flirted with her and asked me how do you even define "flirting." Although it still upsets me till these days, I stopped bringing it up and thought perhaps the girl misunderstood or exaggerated the situation a little bit. He's stopped flirting with her since then and it's clear he doesn't flirt with her now. But the issue continues with other girls and he keeps denying and I keep letting it go. Perhaps it was a mistake to date a friend. He somehow never changed some aspect of his conversations with me. He still commented about girls he found attractive in front of me. There was not even a single girl that we'd encountered that he hadn't commented about her looks. He kept saying this girl is sexy and that girl is attractive (he often used the words sexy and attractive). He even said to me that my sister (MY OWN SISTER) has nice legs. I don't mind if he says she's beautiful, etc., but "nice legs" is a bit inappropriate. Whenever I confronted him, he said in his culture it's ok. He's German, and I know for a fact that it's BS. I have a lot of German friends and I'm familiar with them. But once I made it clear that either he stops or we break up, then he stopped. So he did care about me enough to change. Having gone through all of these, I was still with him until this Saturday when I had enough, and it had nothing to do with girls. I could put up with what I consider his inappropriate behaviors regarding girls if he treated me well. I asked to break up with him because of 3 reasons: 1). We don't spend quality time together enough. He's always playing with his iphone or messaging on facebook. His excuse is always that he's busy. When I suggested that we get away for a weekend, he said that he didn't have time and money to do so. It really pissed me off when I learned that he was planning to go on a ski trip with friends. He made promises that we'd this and that together, and till these days we've done none. 2). He left me alone on New Year's Eve. He said he had to go home for Christmas, which I was fine with as long as he came back for New Years. To keep long story short, he gave reasons (that he didn't go home enough; apparently spending more than one month with is parents during the summer is not enough) that he had to be home this whole time, and apparently these reasons are not temporary, which means that every year he has to be home around this time. I either have to go with him or spend New Year's alone. You get the idea. 3). He recently met with an ex. He told me that she was just a friend. Honestly, I wouldn't care if he told me he met with an ex (from 5 years ago and lives in another country, and she's ugly). But he lied to me. I knew she was his ex (he forgot that he told me awhile ago that she was his ex). When I asked, he denied and acted like I was completely crazy for thinking that she was his ex (basically he put on a drama show; it was unbelievable the way he acted that you had to believe he was totally innocent for him to act that way). When I said that it was him who told me, he was like "yeah... I probably misstated. We were dating, but she was nothing to me." I'm not even concerned how serious their relationship was, but why did he have to lie? It got me thinking, all these times I believed his words because of his dramatic acts that made me believe he was innocent. This time I caught him, but what about the other times? When I asked for a breakup and explained all of these to him, he said they were such small things to ask for a breakup. But the No, I'm not a teenager. I'm in my mid 20s and he's turning 30 this year. But yes he does have the maturity of a 16-year-old boy. I should clarify when I said "I thought we were together" that refers to the beginning part of our relationship. We've been exclusive (at least to my knowledge) for over a year. Everybody, including his family and mine, knows he's my bf and I'm his gf. When I broke up with, he was crying and asking for us to try to work it out. It's only been 2 days, but I miss him so much, although I know it's for the best. This relationship will never last.

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