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I have found out my boyfriend may be into transexuals through some hunting. How do I confront him about this?
Months ago I found a bag of womans lingerie and confronted him about it. He said it was from a previous girl and told me he would throw the bag out the next day. Then 3 months ago I found he was on a bondage dating site and confronted him about it...it said it was an old account and he doesn't use it anymore. Well, I believe he was but knew he couldn't message anyone on there, pretty much just look around. We talked about it 3 more times and I finally sat him down and helped him delete it. I still didn't feel right so Sunday night,4 days ago, I went through his phone while he was sleeping and found he was looking at personal ads for transexuals in our area. I couldn't believe it. I asked him about it the next day and he said him and a friend at work look at weird stuff like that on craigslist, something to laugh about. I still didn't believe him. So I did more searching and found an email address that he had deleted end of Feb, and logged into it to find he had a bunch of men in his contacts list and some even had bi man or CD (cross dresser) in their handle. I also when through an old phone of his which had history of him looking up transexuals from 2 years ago and also found he had some of these mens names in his phone numbers! Oh and I also found the bad of clothes that he "threw away" hidden in the garage attic today. He gets so mad at me for not trusting him when I confront him about this stuff. He doesn't know I know about the email, the contacts or his old phone yet. Or the bag for that matter. He comes home in an hour and I plan on confronting him, was just hoping for some advice on how to approach him. I love this man very much and he is very good to me. I just want the truth. Serious answers please. I totally understand that this is a sensitive matter and want him to be truthful with me. He asks me to trust him but he needs to trust me first. I know he's lying about this whole deal and just want him to be honest so we can talk this through. I have alot of evidence, I don't think he can talk himself out of it now. Most women would probably be long gone but I'm willing to stay and talk it through and try to understand. However,I am NOT ok with him doing other men while with me. We have been together for a year now, live together, and I also have 2 children from a previous marriage to think about. Update: We did talk and he did open up to me. He said it was something he was into years ago but has never met anyone off the net and he's done with the whole deal. He understands why I kept digging for information and why I was concerned. I told him that any other girl would have lost it and probably left with what I found but I care and love him too much and just want to understand. I didn't jump down his throat and yes I am a snoop when there is a reason to do so. I know he didn't come clean with everything but i'm ok with that. It took alot for him to trust me with what he did tell me. We also came to an understanding if he ever felt like he was getting back into that he would let me know. All in all, it was a really good talk and we both feel better.

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Why do some people come back from your past?
There was a man that I connected with 2 years ago, but we lost contact because I thought he was moving back upstate; two days ago, we bumped into each other online from a personal ad. He fits everything I'm looking for in a soul-mate; eye color, hair color, height, complexion, and inner qualities. Do you think this is meant to be? True love always comes back; is this true? Is this man really meant for me or to teach a lesson?

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I have to write a personal ad for an element on the periodic table for a science assignment, i picked cobalt. Can anyone help?

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